{"id":1176,"date":"2009-06-28T10:22:19","date_gmt":"2009-06-28T10:22:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/my-mother\/"},"modified":"2009-06-28T10:22:19","modified_gmt":"2009-06-28T10:22:19","slug":"my-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/my-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"My Mother"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>And yes, since my sister got her on Facebook, she&#8217;ll probably read this.&#160; The sad part, is that she will only get what she wants to get, as that is how she reads everything. <\/p>\n<p>We had a tough conversation last night.&#160; She&#8217;s worried about her brother-in-law, my uncle as he is having problems with complications from diabetes.&#160;He&#8217;s on insulin now &#8212; the oral medications stopped working, which is going to happen if you live long enough.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and mom has diabetes too, and she should know these things.<\/p>\n<p>Last night she told me if she had to go on insulin she&#8217;d give up, she wouldn&#8217;t do it.&#160; This is being told to her daughter who choose to go on insulin in 2002 because I was tired of the random number generator.&#160; I wanted her on insulin immediately when she was diagnosed, but of course she won&#8217;t listen.&#160;<\/p>\n<p>Here I am, on insulin AND symlin, with the genuine and earned fear of needles &#8212; emergency plastic surgery after going through a windshield of a car with nothing to numb the face.&#160; She&#8217;s seen me inject, etc.&#160; Oh, and yeah, I&#8217;m the one getting fills which involves another needle.<\/p>\n<p>PLEASE. &#160;&#160; I&#8217;m sorry but insulin isn&#8217;t that big of a deal and I really don&#8217;t have much respect or patience with that attitude.<\/p>\n<p>But that isn&#8217;t the biggest problem&#8230;..<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve got another issue right now that she doesn&#8217;t get &#8211; mushies &#8212; every lap band patient gains weight when they are on mushies.&#160;It&#8217;s expected, you can&#8217;t help it, and you eat food you can&#8217;t and don&#8217;t eat any other time. <\/p>\n<p>There isn&#8217;t much you can eat on mushies.&#160; The easiest for me is &quot;loaded&quot; baked potato so that when I get done there is more butter, sour creme, and\/or cottage cheese than there is potato.&#160; Of course, there is little or no protein etc.<\/p>\n<p>AND worse yet, I was on the phone with her after the fill, and OH MY GOD, I actually went to Sonic and bought a strawberry shake.&#160; How awful, especially after I stated to her last night that I don&#8217;t keep ice cream in the house and I don&#8217;t buy it.&#160; OH MY GOD, how awful that I bought a shake &#8212; she sniped at me over this in an aside last night.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m SERIOUSLY thinking of flying to Washington now, and skipping the trip to her house. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>And yes, since my sister got her on Facebook, she&#8217;ll probably read this.&#160; The sad part, is that she will only get what she wants to get, as that is how she reads everything. We had a tough conversation last night.&#160; She&#8217;s worried about her brother-in-law, my uncle as he is having problems with complications [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1176","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1176","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1176"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1176\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1176"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1176"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1176"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}