{"id":3287,"date":"2004-09-13T20:57:21","date_gmt":"2004-09-13T20:57:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/apologizing\/"},"modified":"2004-09-13T20:57:21","modified_gmt":"2004-09-13T20:57:21","slug":"apologizing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/apologizing\/","title":{"rendered":"Apologizing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There are two points to this story &#8212; to illustrate another way that apologizing isn&#8217;t acceptable &#8212;<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"code: theWebSocket;\" href=\"http:\/\/ahawkins.org\/archives.html#note_98\">code: theWebSocket;<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And to illustrate what happens when blood sugar is out of control.<\/p>\n<p>A couple of years ago, right after being diagnosed with diabetes and<br \/>\nwith a blood sugar of over 400 &#8230; a teacher aide interrupted one of<br \/>\nmy classes.  I politely asked her to leave, and when she continued to<br \/>\ninterrupt my class time by standing in front of the computer I was<br \/>\ndoing the demonstration on, I yelled at her to get out of my room.<br \/>\nProbably a bit strong of a reaction, and if my blood sugar had been<br \/>\nlower, I might have not yelled as quickly.  Woman never DID budge.<\/p>\n<p>As a result, she complained to one of the administrators, and I<br \/>\nrefused to back down.  Geez, it was MY classroom, I was teaching MY<br \/>\nclass, and she was interrupting.  I ended up discussing it with the<br \/>\nprincipal, and no one ever did acknowledge interrupting me put her in<br \/>\nthe wrong.<\/p>\n<p>To mollify everyone involved, I agreed to let her come up to my<br \/>\nclassroom, introduce her to my students, and apologize to her in front<br \/>\nof them.  She wouldn&#8217;t accept anything less.<\/p>\n<p>My students were appalled!  I told them what was happening the day before she came.<br \/>\nAnd after she left, I let them know that while the witnesses agreed she was in the wrong, third parties had determined that I needed to apologize and it wasn&#8217;t a big deal for me.  I truly<br \/>\nshouldn&#8217;t have yelled, even if she wasn&#8217;t listening.<\/p>\n<p>Good things came of it.  My students learned that apologizing for<br \/>\nmisbehavior &#8212; justified or not &#8212; is not that big of a deal, and the<br \/>\naide and I are at least cordial, and she sees things my way now.<\/p>\n<p>She also hasn&#8217;t interrupted a class of mine since.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are two points to this story &#8212; to illustrate another way that apologizing isn&#8217;t acceptable &#8212; code: theWebSocket; And to illustrate what happens when blood sugar is out of control. A couple of years ago, right after being diagnosed with diabetes and with a blood sugar of over 400 &#8230; a teacher aide interrupted [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3287\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kweaver.org\/diabetes\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}