Birthday

My birthday — 46 is in a few hours. 46 bothers me. 46 is the year my father was diagnosed with congestive heart failure after being diagnosed with diabetes 3 years earlier — the same birth year I was.

Granted, that was 36 years ago, and a wealth of knowledge and technology has come along since then. When he was diagnosed, they told him not to eat sugar and sent him home.

In my case, I was sent home with oral medications and told to make an appointment with a CDE service as quickly as possible.

I’ve got blood sugar monitors, and the pump. Stuff they didn’t even dream of giving to a Type 2 diabetic. Oh, I’m not even sure they had blood sugar monitors — it was 1982, and they darn sure didn’t have pumps. They didn’t put Type 2’s on insulin. I think he had a urine test but I’m not sure of that even.

My goal is to avoid my father’s fate as much as possible by keeping the best control I can.

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4 responses to “Birthday”

  1. Sandra Miller Avatar

    Happy Birthday, Kathleen!
    I can very much understand your trepidation about it (my mom died of arterial sclerosis at 49, and as I get closer to reaching that age, it’s hard not to feel a certain degree of fear).
    But you’re doing a beautiful job caring for yourself– and as you point out, there’ve been so many advances in the last few decades.
    I hope you and your husband do something special to celebrate the day!

  2. Sandra Miller Avatar

    Happy Birthday, Kathleen!
    I can very much understand your trepidation about it (my mom died of arterial sclerosis at 49, and as I get closer to reaching that age, it’s hard not to feel a certain degree of fear).
    But you’re doing a beautiful job caring for yourself– and as you point out, there’ve been so many advances in the last few decades.
    I hope you and your husband do something special to celebrate the day!

  3. Rachel Avatar

    I remember how my mom felt as she approached her 42nd birthday (the age her mom died from rheumatic heart disease) and her 60th birthday (the age her brother died from complications of lung cancer) – so I understand your conundrum from the outside looking in.
    Have yourself a wonderful birthday.

  4. Rachel Avatar

    I remember how my mom felt as she approached her 42nd birthday (the age her mom died from rheumatic heart disease) and her 60th birthday (the age her brother died from complications of lung cancer) – so I understand your conundrum from the outside looking in.
    Have yourself a wonderful birthday.

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